I have this friend who is a Gift from God. She does this thing...and its what I named today "the smackdown peptalk"
Which basically means, I tell her the situation that I'm struggling with and she gives me the Smackdown sandwiches which when broken down into its parts equals,
"I love you...SMACK DOWN....I love you..."
Which is fantastic. Because, you're in this safe "I know they still love me" enviroment while they tell you the absolute truth, which is "you need to take this to God and SORT YOURSELF OUT."
So off I go to sort myself out...